Things i have learnt in 2009
I know right, it is not the end of the year yet but so much has happened in 1 year. Golden couples have broken up, friend's father fallen ill, losing great opportunities, throwing happiness away, making new friends, being sad, being happy temporarily, seeing my name in print, drinking too much, sleeping too little, lymp-nodes coming up everywhere, being sick, finding time for myself, relfecting, so on and so forth. So what have i learnt?
- Everyone should find somebody who doesn't give them grief. Transient happiness coupled with a nigara fall of tears does not constitute happiness.
- When someone is a philanderer, they will always be one. As the saying goes, like father like son.
- Drinking does not cure/solve emotional problems.
- Listen to yourself, if that is the way you work, then don't change who you are. If you do, then don't look back at it in anger.
- LIFE GOES ON. No matter how shitty or sad or morbid you are, time still goes by, and will forever be that way.
- Time can be your friend and foe.
- As cliché as this sounds, time and tide really wait for no man. (woman included).
- Follow your heart. This is probably the best advice, because when your head becomes unreasonable to a point of being delusional, you are in for a big heartache.
- Always follow your set of principles. For the one time i deviated from it, look where i am today?
- Miracles DON'T happen the way you want them too, simply because sometimes God's answer is No.
- Do not attempt to change someone who doesn't have a mind of their own, because they end up fucking up your life. Literally.
- Karma exist.
- No matter how good looking you are, people get tired.
- Be decisive.
- You may not be a rich kid, but you sure can show them how to become one, by actually achieving it and not have it thrust upon you by a dependent.
- Soft-heartedness would get you no where but to Pain-ville.
- Some people who claim they care for you actually takes you for granted the most. Don't mistake that for care. It is suicidal.
- Don't stay because you hope something would change, if it did, it would have happened eons ago.
- Learn to say No.
- You make your own happiness.
- Your family should be placed as the number 1 priority in your life. At all times.
- When love happens, it will happen, don't go chasing for it. You will end up really screwed up & exhausted.
- People who make empty promises ought to be shot. really.
- People who string other people along are the most dysfunctional people on earth.
- Set ground rules and stick to them.
- Read more, plenty, and truckloads.
- People can steal your possessions, and break your heart, but they can never steal your intelligence.
- Patience is a virtue and all good things would come to those who wait
- Don't ever settle for second best.
- Be with someone who actually wants to be with you and not one who promise you something out of nothing and keeps breaking them.
- W.r.t to point 28 and 29, WAIT for YOUR DREAM CAR. Impatience does not do any good to anyone.
- Don't try to manipulate time, you can never beat Goddy God.
- Do not expect, because when things happen when you least expect it, it makes it all worthwhile.
- Contentment sometimes is enough, because as they say, sometimes love just ain't enough.
- No matter how fucked up you feel now, trust that God, well if he is busy, then Mother Mary will keep you safe in their arms. Trust in them. fully. They know what they are doing better than you.
- Don't believe in tears, they lie, big time.
- If the family is fucked up, don't try to mend it for them. They are fucked up for a reason.
- Learn to let go.
- Longer hair suits me (:
- Tattoo the Rosary because life is short.
- Finally, when someone you love, loves you back, grab the person and make them stay, forever, if possible.
Okay, i do apologize for how disorganize the pointers are coming out.but these are what i have learnt in 2009 so far. I'm not saying i've become this divine being that deserved to be praised, but 2009 no matter how fucked up it is so far taught me alot. Well let's just hope all will come out right from now eh? We have suffered and learnt so much that it is time God get his act together and does his little *alakazam* magic and we meet nice beyoootiful people and by people i mean partners/future spouses like tomorrow. yes Poooooja Kaur?
Lord I'm doing all I can, to be a better man
The school..
The teacher and her students 
The school motto
The ex-theresian & her classroom 
Our mandatory shot in the looooo! 
Waited for Bro to book out of Tekong..
Nice ah! NAAICE!
Botak head so sleepy meh?
The family... 
HAHAHAHA. go back TEKONG liao.